So as you are all well aware, eight weeks after becoming a mother, I became single. This being the case I have no idea what it’s like to be in a relationship with someone who is the father of your child. The only thing I can compare the situation to is being in a relationship with my cats. OK, stay with me now. I have to say that after becoming a mother, my cats (who were previously a couple of central characters in my life – I mean I could/should have had a blog about being a cat owner – I would have had a lot to say) became two insignificant hairy objects that ran around my house, sometimes getting in the way of my feet. Mr. Pickle Pants and Shenanigans suddenly became just another couple of chores and my feelings changed towards them – dramatically. (I’m not saying this makes me a good person – I’m just telling you the way it went down.)
So what I’m wondering is: If two things I previously loved so much became so insignificant to me after having a child – is this in anyway similar to how some women feel about their husbands when they become mothers?
I’m just curious. Married moms… care to fill me in?